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fireyone

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Tue Jul 29, 2008 12:45 pm
 
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| I am sure it took alot of work. Like I said i another post erb the credit world needs a complete make-over. Starting with the ticklers and how long a old paid debt can stay on as a negative. They are so worried about the credit world because of the effects it has on the economy and so forth. If they would revise some of these things they could help make the credit world a stronger and safer place. |
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Justin

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Thu Jul 31, 2008 10:39 am
 
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Yes, as soon as you pay off the debt, it should go out off the credit report because sometimes we not only pay the original debt, but also a large sum of money along with it as interest. But the system is such that it stays on the credit report for seven years affecting our credit score. The only way to get the listing out of the credit report is to make the creditor agree for a pay for deletion agreement. _________________ All the Best
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erb1953

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Thu Jul 31, 2008 11:17 am
 
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| Yeah the original debt plus all the crazy fees on top of that, I agree it should come off your report or the length of time that it stays there should be shortened. Who makes these laws maybe we could advocate for this. |
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fireyone

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Thu Jul 31, 2008 12:23 pm
 
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| That would be an idea. I can see leaving it on for a very short period of time but this 7 year thing is ridiculous. Many peoples lives changed drastically in a seven year period. Just because your a little down and out and having problems doesn't mean its forever. I know I look back at my credit record an d think "wow things were really bad back then". I say let it on there for a few months and then let the past be the past. |
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goodnatured

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fireyone

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Tue Aug 05, 2008 1:29 am
 
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| Maybe I will invite a bunch of people last minute and pretend the invitations got lost in the mail. |
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goodnatured

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fireyone

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Mon Aug 11, 2008 12:54 am
 
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| Probalty turn out to be a much better party that way. One thing about people these days is the UNDERSTANDING has gotten lost. |
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goodnatured

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fireyone

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Wed Aug 20, 2008 6:37 pm
 
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| This much is true. I feel so much better mentally and physically since moving out here to the country and away from relatives. Before it was like having a monitoring system on you 24/7. Everytime my car would pull out of the driveway I could hear them saying "She leaving again? or where does she find to go all the time?" Evfen if I hadn't left for a week this is what I'd get. That or "Why didn't you tell me you were runnung into town. I needed some things. Guess I will have to go without." No Granny..put some gas in your car and do your own shopping. UGH!!! |
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goodnatured

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erb1953

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Mon Aug 25, 2008 11:07 am
 
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| Sometimes they just assume that when they are family that you are obligated to help them out, this may be the case here with fireyone. did you take her a lot in the past? I guess it would get on my nerves too if they were watching my every move and then talking about how much I run, how do they know where you are going? |
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fireyone

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Mon Aug 25, 2008 12:43 pm
 
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| No never really took her anywhere (god what a thought!!). Just when her car was down I would ask if she needed anything. It started where even after it was fixed I was given a grocery list weekly. What mostly annyed me is she wanted her stuff on a seperate slip so I would have to do 2 orders. Then She never gave me the money before hand...only a check when I brought her up the goods and reciept. I really didn't have the extra cash all the time to wait until I was in town again to cash the check and get the money back Frustrating. |
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goodnatured

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Mon Aug 25, 2008 3:37 pm
 
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Does she have kids of her own that could be helping her out? What does she do now that you have moved, I would hope that one of her own have stepped in to help her out.
I am sure that she appreciated what you have done for her and I am sure that she misses you for other reasons too. I am sure that she wishes she would have put the few bucks in the gas tank and make your life a little easier.
glad to here that you are in a better place now, hope it continues to do well. _________________ Goodnatured,
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