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goodnatured



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Posted on Thu Dec 13, 2007 1:01 am  

Hang in there cracker, I am sure this is just a phase she is going through, you both will make it through it one way or another.
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crackerjack



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Posted on Thu Dec 13, 2007 6:33 pm  

I know, I try to be patient, I know that she will get through this soon and I really want to thank everyone for listening to me complain, but it is good to get it off my chest. We have good weeks and bad weeks, I know eventually she will be out of school and on her own, I know I will miss her then (tear in the eye) but I just wish we got along better know. I appreciate everyones support, remember if you need teenager advice, I am here, but let me get through this one first.
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Posted on Mon Jan 21, 2008 6:52 pm  

hey i have a problem with my own attitude sometimes if im agitated i take it out on others then i have to apoligize. i think everyone feeds off they own attitudes and everyone has bad days but be big about it, when you calm down apologize. i dont have time for people who stick thier noses up in the air or snobs no one is lower than me nor are they better. god made us all equal.
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Posted on Wed Jan 23, 2008 12:31 am  

You have to be careful taking it out on people dadummy, especially if they have nothing to do with what you are mad about. Some people get insulted or hurt by backlashing. Just becareful, you may find that some people won't accept your apology. LOL.
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Posted on Wed Jan 23, 2008 12:49 am  

I agree with attitude is a important part of everyday life. we take too much for granted these days. I know i get upset and take it out on others but i mostly apoligize after i explode. I should just stay locked in somedays, but everyone gets bad days some just handle it better than others.
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Posted on Wed Jan 23, 2008 4:03 am  

I have read some of your posts and don't think that you give yourself the credit you should dadummy. I think that if you take a few minutes to think before you speak you will be fine, you don't seem like the type that would intentionally try to hurt somebodies feelings.

I guess if you try to think about the impact that you have on others around you maybe you would not do it as much. It is not real good for your health either to get that upset about something. Don't let things escalate to that point, the boiling point is no place to be.

Another problem is that it could destroy relationships that you have. You don't want people walking on egg shells around you, that is just much more irritating.

Just take some time and try to think about how the other person really feels when you are slamming them, it is a hard habit to break, especially if you assume every time that your apology will be accepted, may be it is or maybe it isn't. People may say that they forgive you when really they are just saying that so that you won't explode again.

Just try to bite your tongue, take a deep breath, walk away, what ever it takes. You don't want to ruin relationships because of outbursts.
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Posted on Wed Jan 23, 2008 9:40 am  

I had this problem as well. But I took over it though it took me more than a year to control my wildness. Impatience and failure sometimes make you irrational and you do not judge before you shoot. I agree august that relationships might break because of this and it did for me. I learned a hard way. I really do not want you to go through the same Da.

Initially I would shout and scream and then calm down. By then I would have made the worst mistakes of my life. I might have shooed away many around me. I took a stance against my own behaviour. Whenever I was angry I locked myself in a room and shouted inside the pillow.LOL
But slowly and steadily the urge to shout soothed out. I am not easily angered because during those times I kept controlling my anger till the cause of anger went away. Im happy now, more soothing and sober. Pretty impressed by my own performances.
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Posted on Wed Jan 23, 2008 6:57 pm  

Do you think it went a way because you were smothering yourself, LOL, just kidding.

I think that is great that you got a hold of yourself like that, you are your own counselor, awesome that you got it under control without any professional help or medication.
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Posted on Wed Jan 23, 2008 9:12 pm  

I tend to avoid people that i think have bad attitudes because they put me in the same mood.I cant afford to be in a bad mood or have an attitude I tell it as i see it now, thats bad enough although i try to do it discreetly not with an attitude, but if someone gives me an attitude ill give it back im not carrying any extra loads. lol
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Posted on Thu Jan 24, 2008 12:38 am  

Quote:
I have read some of your posts and don't think that you give yourself the credit you should dadummy.


Did you happen to see that Laura made it through it, it took some time, but she managed to get it under control.

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I tend to avoid people that i think have bad attitudes because they put me in the same mood.


I know what you mean, it is catchy, I try to stay away from these people too, but sometimes I am that person, LOL. I was today at work, did not get much sleep last night, was up at 3:30 am for about an hour, I am trying to stay awake tonight so I get a full nights rest. I am moody when I am tired.
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Posted on Thu Jan 24, 2008 9:27 am  

Yes we all are. We dont feel like doing stuff and then tend to misbehave. No more for me LOL. I have smothered myself a lot right erb?
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Posted on Fri Jan 25, 2008 2:48 am  

Maybe you need to detox! Seriously, you can detox and get a lot of crap out of your body. You do this for three days, you do not drink anything but water. You eat only ruffage, such as water based fruits and lettuce. It is only a three day process but it takes all the toxins out of your body. Give it a shot, you will feel great afterwards. If you think about the detox, you are essentially draining your body of the crap, washing it out with the water and the water based fruits and vegetables. You can take your vitamens and healthy supplements in this time frame to make sure that you are getting the proper nutrition, especially if you are not a healthy person.
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Posted on Fri Jan 25, 2008 12:23 pm  

I will try and tell you lunchtime. Too much junk and late nights for the past few days. I need it now i guess.
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Posted on Fri Jan 25, 2008 11:52 pm  

Found this and thought it related to our post here.




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Posted on Tue Jan 29, 2008 8:52 pm  

Looks like something that would be worth considering, if you truly dedicated some time to it, you may be able to see things this way and clearly and not get so mad and snap so quickly.

I suppose you could log your journal anyway that you wanted to be, weather it be on a word processor, or in hand written form. Either way you are getting it out.

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