pdl loans

Submitted by stiles_laura on Mon, 10/27/2008 - 03:34

I have 8 pdl loans that I need to stop from being taken out of my checking account. After they deduct the interest only payments, I do not have enough to pay my other bills. Just the interest payments are more than what I owe total. I want to pay them, but I need to close my account and pay them by money orders only. What is the best way to do this. I am in TN and they are all legal

Hi stiles_laura
I think that there is a judgment against you to garnish your bank account and so the creditors can take money directly out of your account. I think that you should immediately contact your creditor and negotiate with them for a lumpsum payment to pay off your existing debt. For paying off your payday loans, you can go for debt consolidation loans which will consolidate all your Payday loans into a single loan account and you need to pay a rate of interest much lower than payday loans.

Mon, 10/27/2008 - 05:59 Permalink

Yes, Carol is right. But for availing the debt consolidation loan, you need to have a good credit score. However, if you do not have a good credit score to avail a debt consolidation loan at low rates of interest. If you cannot get a debt consolidation loan, you can take advance from your employer to payback the payday loan. But you should immediately pay it off since you are already in debt trap and will will fall into it further since you are only making interest payment and not even a part of the actual principle amount.

Mon, 10/27/2008 - 06:16 Permalink

Not a lot of consolidation companies will take these payday loans, I started out with ten of them and could not get any help with a consolidation company because these loan companies refuse to deal with the consolidation folks.

You are better off contacting each of them and letting them know your situation, you can let them know that you have eight of them out and that it is your desire to take care of them, however you will need lots of cooperation on their part.

Be ready for some nasty responses. Some of them just do not care. Ask them to make a payment arrangement that is going to bring the balances down. The most important thing will be to get this all in writing since they are legal in your state. Are they following your state law as far as what they can charge you with the intrest and everything. You will want to check all that out also. If they are charging over the amount, then you could possibly get some relief there. You can check out those laws at https://www.credit.com/credit_information/credit_law/PaydayLoanLaws.jsp

Mon, 10/27/2008 - 13:58 Permalink
laura stiles (not verified)

so if I close my account and contact all of them and pay the balances will this be a good idea? Each are charging me $180.00 a month and nothing goes to the actual amount borrowed. I just want to pay each one what I legally owe and be done with them. Carol, you said there was a judgement on my account. What does that mean? I am a little confused as to whether or not they are following TN payday loan laws. I need some help on that

Mon, 10/27/2008 - 14:25 Permalink

Maybe I'm reading the thread wrong, but, it doesn't seem like a judgemnt at all. Just seems like they are taking a fee out of your account, every so often ( usually every 2 weeks..) for JUST fees. Depending on how much the 'loan' was ( ie..if it was $100.00 the fee would be $30.00..or..if the loan was $20.00 the fee would be $60.00). You CAN close your account and open another one. I know ALOT of people who have done this, just to 'start over'. They really had to. Did you talk to your bank? Will they help in any way?

Mon, 10/27/2008 - 15:22 Permalink
laura stiles (not verified)

I have talked to my bank and they said that I could close my account. They have already opened a new one for me. The only problem I have is my old account has a negative balance which I do not have the money to clear before I get paid. I am going to see if they will stop all ACH withdrawls and then when I get paid I can pay off the negative balance and then close the account. This is a big mess that I will never be a part of again.

Mon, 10/27/2008 - 15:35 Permalink

Well.....good. Seems like they are working with you, already. Do you have Direct Deposits, for your employment? Can you change the Direct Deposit to your other account? I'm sure if you explain the issue, they should stop ALL of ACH's. One step at a time.

Mon, 10/27/2008 - 16:31 Permalink
laura stiles (not verified)

I do have direct deposit and I am changing that with my employer. It takes a couple of weeks to get it set up. The bank said they would put a note on my account to direct my deposit to my new account. Hopefully this will all work and I can get them paid and go on with my life. Should i send any cease & desist letters to them so they do not contact my work and friends?

Mon, 10/27/2008 - 17:02 Permalink

To be on the 'safe side', i would send letters. If they had contact with YOU, they shouldn't be trying to contacting friends and family. Besides...ALOT of the PDL's don't call your references, when you get a 'loan' from them. Even when I defaulted on the PDL's I had, they never contacted anyone. Keep me 'updated' please..thanks. Also..LAURA, I want to tell you, if you go to the HomePage of this forum, you can 'register' on it, to make a little extra money for yourself. I've noticed you are a 'Guest' in the forums. When you 'register', everytime you make a post, you will have accumulated so-many points. The points will go under your ID ( when you sign up for one..) and as you post you can see the ID and how many points you've made. Becareful, though....the HomePage will say " do you want to sign up for Credit Counseling" or " sign up to post on forums"? Cash is as is: 1 point=1 cent. So...if you make 5 points ( for a post..) you actually make 5 cents. There is no limit on how many posts you can have per day. I'll tell ya>>>>>>>the people, on this forum, have given me wonderful 'direction' and advice on issues. And...I get alittle extra money for it, too. You can 'cash out' your points when you reach $10.00 (1000 points..). It explains this in the 'Miss' forum..under " make money by posting" ( not exactly those words. Hope I helped alittle. Good luck.

Mon, 10/27/2008 - 19:41 Permalink
Anonymous (not verified)

The payday loan company cannot take out money directly from your checking account until and unless you authorize them to do so. Another way they can take out money from your account is to sue you to the court and bring judgment against you as Carol said and then garnish your checking account so that the moment there is any credit in your account, they can take away the money so long as the debt along with the interest is paid in full.

Tue, 10/28/2008 - 10:49 Permalink

You can revoke the drafting of your checking account by writing them a letter and telling them that you no longer permit them to ACH your checking account, now weather they do it or not is a different story.

Tue, 10/28/2008 - 10:57 Permalink
laura stiles (not verified)

I talked to my bank and they opened another account for me and trasferred my negative balance to it and closed my other account. I am then going to contact each payday lender and send a money order for the balance that I owe. My bank has been great on helping me get out from under this. Thanks for all of the help. It was greatly appreciated.

Tue, 10/28/2008 - 16:02 Permalink

I understand more about PDL's now. However....I'm still a bit confused on how they LEGALLY can sue..if they are ILLEGAL ( alot of them, anyway).

Tue, 10/28/2008 - 16:03 Permalink
arog (not verified)

i have seven pdloans out, im in mo. and if i close my account and open a new one, im afraid i will face criminal charges

Wed, 11/12/2008 - 11:55 Permalink

AROG........you may not HAVE a choice but to 'start over.' Which may mean to change your bank account. I'm not sure which PDL's you have, but, you may want to check to see which ones are 'legal' in your state. I had to close my bank account a few times ( and get a new one) to 'start things over.' I know it's overwhelming at times, trying to deal with them.

Fri, 11/14/2008 - 12:00 Permalink

Hi arog
Since you have seven payday loans pending, you should immediately pay it off as the interest rates on these loans are very high. This high interest rates on the payday loans will add up to the actual amount and will push you to vicious circle of debt. If you have a good credit score, you should immediately go for debt consolidation loans which comes with a very attractive rate of interest and will help you to consolidate all your loan accounts into a single loan account.

Mon, 11/17/2008 - 08:20 Permalink

Yes, carol is right. You should immediately make provisions to pay back the payday loans as soon as possible. If you do not have a good credit score so that you can get a debt consolidation loan, you can take advances from your employer or borrow from your friend to pay off the debt. You should also check your credit report and see whether these debts have been listed in your credit report. However, outstanding debts which is less than six months old are generally not listed in the credit report.

Mon, 11/17/2008 - 08:30 Permalink
don (not verified)

get a lawyer, usury is a crime..

Wed, 06/10/2009 - 20:55 Permalink
sherrell (not verified)

i have 4 loans and I would like to get out of this mess

Sun, 06/21/2009 - 15:00 Permalink
ljw6227 (not verified)

You have to be careful and contact your attorn. gen. for your state and dept of finance for your state each state has def. laws concerning pay day loans. Yes in the state of Missouri if you go close your account yourself they have the right to bring criminal charges such as fraud. Keep the account open until you check your state laws first. I kept mine open had 7 out myself. I changed my dir dep from my job to husband account at different bank, and when they called or whatever just told them just to pay it off in full and let it go through. Yes I had to pay the bank nsf fees but that was nothing compared to what I was shelling out to them, I am sending money orders and paying on them now. Legally they can only attempt to run it through so many times then they have to stop. This varies from state to state too...

Tue, 07/14/2009 - 22:42 Permalink

i have 4 loans and I would like to get out of this mess

It is simple. Pay off the debts and get a settlement from the collection agency/agencies. How old are the loans?

Wed, 07/15/2009 - 10:36 Permalink
velma (not verified)

hi my loan is not in my account you said in 15mins but itis not in ant

Wed, 11/25/2009 - 02:07 Permalink
barbara alsheimer (not verified)

i consolidated several loans with pdl assistance but one loan company is threatening me with going to court in california, i can't afford to pay two places as we are having a hard time financially, we had to take bankruptcy a year ago because of medical bills, we are 80 and 78 years old. my e -mail address if "barbalsheimer@yahoo.com"

Sat, 12/19/2009 - 19:20 Permalink
Helen McGhee (not verified)

i apply for loan p d l loan. i gave them my inforamation . they gave me a call . i told them i did not want the loan. i check my account. it was in their . trying to get in touch with them no answer. what can i do . i told them i don't want need the money.

Thu, 12/31/2009 - 01:19 Permalink
aurora quiroz (not verified)

i would like to apply for a loan

Tue, 01/19/2010 - 14:56 Permalink
jaded (not verified)

I've run into the same type of issue and I'd like to share what I've found helpful. Even if you have bad/no credit outside of your "payday loans" there is a company that will consolidate them for you and set up a 6-12 month repayment schedule. The cost for the service is a one time fee of $200(or less, depending on your combined total). They set up a savings account in your name where they deposit your monthly payments to them and once the amount builds up enough to pay off each debt they let you know and send the full payoff amount to that particular creditor. They do the negotiating for you to reduce the fees and/or interest each company charges and they handle all correspondence with each company so you don't get the harassing phone calls. Just as an example on a combined total of 4 payday loans totaling just under $1100 the one time fee would be $175 and a 6 month repayment of $155 per month to clear all debts. They can adjust the length of repayment to fit your budget. Also, since the account is in your name, you can send additional funds at any time-allowing you to pay off your debt faster and there are no prepayment fees or charges. This is the best option that I had found in my research. The company info is:
Restructure Payday Loans
Hope this helps you. Best of luck.

Mon, 06/21/2010 - 21:01 Permalink

Jaded, If a company could do that for you I wonder how you could not give them a call and try to negotiate on your own. I do advise being careful with some of these types of places some end up making your credit report a mess by not paying the debts for many months.

Tue, 06/22/2010 - 03:06 Permalink
Deedkpa (not verified)

I tried the restructure route with a company called yourpaydayloanhelp.com and would deposit money into an account in my name every month, not one of the debts was settled and they took over a 1000 dollars from me. When I checked the account there was only program fees being taken out and not one debt was paid. It is a good idea to close your bank account so you can get control over your finances and pay them on your terms. It is probably best to just negotiate something with the company themselves.

Wed, 06/30/2010 - 10:01 Permalink
alberto rodriguez (not verified)

last month payday loan like topica and other company went
to my account and took $600 in applications fees!
so i called the FCC and FBI to find out about the matter.
monday i have no choise to close the account

Sat, 07/24/2010 - 00:15 Permalink

You guys may want to check out this thread: http://www.walletpop.com/blog/search/?q=payday+loans
Seems like the state officials are tired of these pdl people and are starting to do something about it. According to those articles W.Virginia and NY (maybe other states) are making these companies pay back the customers. It gives good ammo to other states looking to do the same thing!

Sat, 07/24/2010 - 23:56 Permalink

There are ALOT more states 'fighting' this PDL thing. I know we've ALL fallen into the 'PDL trap'. But...we ALL have had financial issues. It's difficult to 'fight back', at times.

Sun, 07/25/2010 - 00:20 Permalink
KSP (not verified)

Looks like "Jaded" has used restructurepayday.com with success. Has anyone else ever used this company and had success?

Sun, 08/29/2010 - 02:29 Permalink


Restructurepayday.com is a pay day loan company. please let me know which state you are in?



Mon, 08/30/2010 - 12:27 Permalink
ZIGI (not verified)

No you wont face criminal charges. Its a debt for goodness sake. The ones put in jail should be the pay day loan companies. They are putting thousands of people in debt per day and they are feeding off of those that are hurting for money. If you dont have the money then who thinks they will have it later. We need to stop these companies. A complete boycot of them would be the best. if we stop giving them food they will go away. All they can do is give you a warrant in debt. Maybe a judgement later on. Ive had some try judgments but they dont show up in court so the judge has thrown them all out. They are hoping you dont show.

Mon, 04/25/2011 - 16:18 Permalink

You're correct!! They NEED to be stopped!!! So many are illegal and SO many will never 'work with you'. ALOT of them are overseas so, even if 'we' wanted to do something about them, I don't know how we could...out o 'juridiction' (that kind of thing).

Sun, 05/15/2011 - 17:25 Permalink
carla (not verified)

i have a callcenter here in phil...can u give me a pdl campaigns/project

Fri, 09/02/2011 - 05:10 Permalink
Gia (not verified)

I took a $500. + $75. loan from PDL loans and they were to take the entire amount owed from my next paycheck. Well they started taking $150 every paycheck for "interest". I didn't notice they were doing this until they were at $650! What kind of a rip off place is this???? At that rate I would never pay them off. I had to put a stop payment on the automatic deduction from my bank, so they would stop robbing me. I have now paid more that what I owed them. They are calling me and harassing me. They've gotten more than what I borrowed, what more do they want from me?? It's probably a good idea to close my account.
Don't ever borrow money from these shady loan places!!!

Wed, 05/16/2012 - 21:05 Permalink
learnedmylesson (not verified)

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If you're scanning this, mind "Why would a man say this to thousands of girls he's never even talked to before?Because that is many words that are super offensive, Thereby not making task seem attractive at all" Try swiping past at least one of these simple a night for the past four years.

The obvious answer is that men turn their dating profiles intorants because they're angry and somewhat consequently. online dating service personals is often lonely and bleak. Andif you have a major city, There's a seemingly endless landscape of profiles, these all mostly look the same, Which makes it hard to know whom you'd connect with in real life.

So with that in mind, i'll just tell to the men who do this: I attract the anger. anways, i do. You're not on your own on a dating app who is pissed off!

I just blew your mind, never I? It's true a ton latina women dating of women, Myself consisted of, Have felt tempted to write an all caps Tinder bio listing all the jobs we'reexhausted by. But most of us don't actually do that. so just why? because it is not a good look. And if you happen to didn't know, Women shouldn't be yelled at by men we have done nothing to. We get enough of that when we walk down the street or use the web.

with that being said, If you still can't see why this is a bad call, contemplate it this way: If you're a straight man on a first date with a woman and the first thing she did was angrily and aggressively talk about the not worth a effort guys she's been out with lately, You'd NotAllMen around her.

it's completely okay to be frustrated by online dating; Most people of all genders and all sexualities are frustrated by it. Most of us want so badly to just find someone wonderful to make out with and eat snacks with as you're watching Netflix, Because we're humans and you want to feel loved. And sifting through apps to obtain it, While trying to connect with total strangers in a way that feels honest and true while hoping your lover is also being honest and true is terrifying.

So maybe deletethe ambitious rant on your bio. I know it's scarier to admit you will be tired and vulnerable, But most individuals would rather read the bio of someone who seemsauthentic and open than someone who seems like they already hate us before we've even met.

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