saying no, how soon?

Submitted by Dadummy on Fri, 12/14/2007 - 00:08

how do you know when to say no with out being selfish?

I do for everyone and it seems like no one cares if i am short, Its like they think its ok for me to be without but if they need something i should be thier answer for everything. Sometimes id like to be on the recieving side but all my family and friends think im here for thier benifit. I dont think i have all that long on this earth so whats wrong with there being a little time and fun for me.

Fri, 12/14/2007 - 00:11 Permalink

Say "no" when you have an explanation which is meant for the people you are saying no to. So make things look like you are doing it for them.

Fri, 12/14/2007 - 07:28 Permalink

Dadummy say no when it starts cutting into your life, which apparently it already has, start with one and the others will follow.

Why do you think you have a short time left on this earth? You should be thinking more positive than that.

Mon, 12/17/2007 - 16:11 Permalink